Tihar, Communal Event

Communities of all faiths, whether Hindu, Buddhist, Muslim, or any other, come together to celebrate Tihar as a social festival in perfect harmony. Tihar is a festival of lights and colors that is celebrated by all Nepalese communities.

Dashain, Tihar is Nepal’s most important holiday, with its rich and unique culture and traditions. The five days of Tihar are loved to the fullest because each day has its own importance. Adults and children from a neighborhood get together to play Deusi-Bhailo and go door to door in the same or another neighborhood, promoting social interaction. In the house, relatives or neighbors come together to prepare sweet foods, Selroti, and the Tihar feast. They socialize with each other in this way. They get to know one other better while having a good time. During the Tihar celebration, it is customary to join together to play swings in a public space.

Tihar is also a festival dedicated to the reunion of siblings. Brotherhood and Sisterhood are treasured and cherished. Along with having fun and entertainment, the spirituality of the custom is safeguarded and nurtured for generations to come. The joy of gathering about, hearing to grandmother and grandfather’s lengthy back stories, and meeting those siblings who had been away for the time being is overpowering.

There are several preparations to be made for Tihar, and as a result, family members and relatives converge to help. Tihar is also a time when neighbors join together to celebrate. The house comes alive with laughter and talk in the kitchen and living room as several feasts are prepared. The fireworks are enjoyed by the children with their families or siblings.